My Big Fat Rant

Recently there was a discussion on Facebook about acupuncturists treating people for obesity. I’d like to point out that treating someone for obesity is not treating someone for a health condition. People argue about this point but it’s true. Fat people can be healthy. Imagine.  They can also be fit. So the idea of bringing in people who are otherwise healthy for health care seems rather unethical to me.

Now, I and a few others who were pro-size-acceptance were asked to stay off the thread so that those who wanted to could learn what other practitioners found to be  effective for working with weight loss. Apparently pointing out that obesity was not a health problem and that we needed to treat the person rather than the “weight” was not considered a useful tip.

The fact is, fat people do go to acupuncturists. Some of my patients were fat. Some of them were not. Many of the fat and thin people had the same health issues. Many of them had the same overlapping constellation of disease patterns, that may have manifested in slightly varied symptoms. If I didn’t need to weigh my thin patient, why should I weigh my fat one?

Several practitioners talked about obesity as if it in and of itself was the problem.

They talked about gathering BMI measurements and taking weight measurements to help them assist the client in promoting better health. However, obesity is not in and of itself a problem. It is often correlated with other problems. Helping those other issues that may go in tandem with obesity is great if the patient comes to you for those issues. If you are actually treating the root cause, rather than focusing on the symptom, you might end up having a person who loses weight on your watch and maybe they even keep some of it off. To say that a fat person is unhealthy just because they have a large BMI is not true.

Practitioners were often quick to point out to the size acceptance people that we were wrong.

There was no scientific evidence used to back up the claims that we were wrong. It was only “common wisdom” that was used and everybody knows “that”. That’s  not an effective argument. Please point out the science behind what you think is wrong. Until then, I’m going to say they’re right. My links have science behind them and they quote it.

I am particularly disappointed that such arguments came from acupuncturists, because “everybody knows” acupuncture has no science behind it.

There were many suggestions on the thread about lifestyle changes, mainly diet and exercise.

Diets don’t work. Neither does adding exercise. Do I really need another link to Shapely Prose?  It’s healthier to maintain a stable weight than it is to lose a lot of weight only to regain it a few years later. That should be obvious to practitioners who are about balance. However, let’s remember balance is not static, it is something that fluctuates from time to time. The most stable systems can adjust and re-adjust on a regular basis. These systems, however, make small adjustments. That means that small weight fluctuations, like one or two or five pounds that get gained and lost are far healthier than fifteen or fifty pounds that get lost and then gained.

There were a few suggestions about measuring BMI.

Apparently, the BMI is “objective” and because of that, taking it and reporting it isn’t a judgement but merely a fact and therefore patients will hear the news that they are fat and will do something about it.

First, BMI measurements are an arbitrary measurement. They’ve been changed overnight so that many normal weight people became overweight, just because someone decided to change the categories.

Second of all, fat people know they’re fat. You don’t have to give them an objective reading. This will not be motivating. Trust me, all fat people are motivated to lose weight and if you actually have an unmotivated fat person sitting in your office, that person isn’t motivated because they’ve failed so many times they don’t want to get their hopes up again.

Or you may have a fat activist in your office, in which case you might actually learn something if you listen to them.

There is an insistence that there is a general consensus that being overweight or obese leads to health issues.

This is not true. At all. Except among people who sell diet products. As to the other side of that argument, please refer back to Kate Harding’s site.

One person suggested that obese people don’t want to change.

Well, maybe. Not everyone does. They may already be aware that those changes you want them to make don’t work. They may have tried things you’ve never considered and they are still fat. So why should they change? Additionally, if they are there for health reasons, maybe dealing with the illness is not the best time for major lifestyle change. It may be that they’re expending all their energy just to exist and get to their various doctor’s appointments.

Now, let’s consider that during the thread a number of people talked about how diets don’t work (see above) and that weight loss may not be as easy as you’ve tried to make it sound, and yet you refuse to comment on any of the great links offered. Can I suggest that perhaps you don’t want to change either?

In order to help a sick person, acupuncturists need to address diet and lifestyle.

I don’t disagree with that in general. I do disagree with suggesting people need to eat less or eat lower calorie foods. In fact, I suspect many of my fat patients actually need to eat more. As to how much change needs to be made, perhaps you need to start working on the acupuncture side of that and making small suggestions after finding out about the current lifestyle first rather than looking at someone and deciding what their lifestyle must be.

According to one person, acupuncture can help people get to a mental and spiritual place to make the “needed changes” in lifestyle.

I have no words. For this I consulted Ragan Chastain at Dances with Fat and  who said, “This is problematic on a number of levels, first of all, if you think that you can tell from someone’s body size that they need to make spiritual changes, in fact if you are under the impression that body size gives you any information other than the size of the body and your personal attitudes about bodies that size, then I urge you to refer your fat patients to another practitioner until you are able to properly address your prejudices and stereotypes around fat bodies.

“People are many different sizes for many different reasons, there are healthy and unhealthy people of every shape and size, and healthy habits and spiritual balance are not different for different body sizes.  If you run an evidence-based practice you already know that there is no weight loss technique shown to work for more than a tiny fraction of participants. ”

I am troubled by the lack of size acceptance among many practitioners because as acupuncturists we are uniquely suited to help all people get healthy.  It’s  a medicine that insists we treat the root cause. The root cause of  a fat person’s health problems is not being fat. Fat is a symptom. Consider that most women, and even some men (and the percentage of those men is growing) have been dieting off and on for years. In addition to pure caloric starvation, the body is also getting a lot of low calorie fake foods that have minimal nutrition and lots of chemicals that may actually exacerbate the problem. The diabetes and heart disease and hypertension may have less to do with the excess weight and more to do with the excess dieting.

I have information about my own health that I’m willing to share, but that may need to come in another post, because to see me, a fat-ish woman and tell me to eat less would be exactly the opposite of what my doctor told me. And yeah, we did blood work and plenty of tests. Oh and did I mention my doctor is a naturopath? I will talk more about that in a related post. I would also like to address the energetics of being fat in our world, which is a lot more complex than addressing just the spleen. But that’s yet another post. In fact, the combination of all of my commentary might end up being a book.

I’ll leave you with more words from Ragan. “If you want to work appropriately and effectively with fat patients, then I encourage you to think of them exactly like your thin patients, only bigger.  Explain that you can help them have their best possible health, and that health and body size are not the same thing.  Encourage them to pursue healthy habits and allow their body size to settle where it will, rather than attempting to manipulate their body size through food, exercise and acupuncture.

“The only changes you need to make are to your practice – make sure that you have chairs without arms, oversized tables and/or wings to make them wider to accommodate broad-shouldered and fat patients, and work on identifying and eradicating any prejudice that you might have against people of a certain size.  Finally, help your patients see that the social stigma to which they are currently subjected, which is of course horrible for their health, is not deserved and that the solution to social stigma is not weight loss, but ending social stigma and the problem lies not with their bodies, but with a society that has developed prejudice against it.”

And if you want to know more, in addition to her blog, which is a great read, Ragan does speaking engagements. This could be a great learning experience for a group of local healthcare providers who want to better serve their clients of size.

Honoring Our Differences

It’s easy to become dogmatic about things we love. However, not everything works for everyone and every single person needs to find their own way.  I re-remembered this a couple of times yesterday.   Once was when someone posted about a health concern on a Facebook forum and another friend, who has no medical background to my knowledge, immediately posts some information about what to do, that contradicted what this person’s healthcare provider recommended.  As a knowledgeable person about complementary health, I know what was recommended. My friend has contacted me off the internet about her health concerns and asked questions about the treatment plan.  I was quite put off by the information given from the other friend not only because it was incorrect for the person it was recommended to, it was   irresponsibly posted, as if this was the only way to do something, followed up with a chatty, “Call me and I’ll get you fixed right up.”

Yeah.

I re-remembered it again as I talked to another friend. We had gone through a coaching program together, which I feel was quite invaluable. She’s moved on to work with a different coach in a different program which she is very excited about. It seems to be working for her. I still feel myself tightening up, wanting to defend the first coach as a the preferred choice, although clearly, while the initial program helped me a great deal, it didn’t do as much for her.

I am reminded we each have our path.  This is true for everyone. It is true for our patients, that might need another practitioner or a different modality. It is true for our friends and for ourselves.  As humans, we are each unique with different paths to walk in all areas of our life. Sometimes it becomes hard to step back and not defend one’s own choices when they have worked for you.  Sometimes it’s important to do so.

Hiring a Locum Tenens

The hardest part of vacation is finding someone to cover.  Practitioners who share space with other acupuncturists may have an easier time of this.  However, if both practices are busy, patients may not get in at the times they need or as frequently as they need.

Most people willing to work as locum tenens are acupuncturists who are just starting out.  Many of these people are very capable.   More senior practitioners may have concerns about leaving their practice in the hands of someone who is just starting out.  There are fears about the other acupuncturist trying to “steal” their patients.  They may also fear that the other practitioner will make an error of judgment and the patient will stop treatments.

There is no way to guarrantee that this won’t happen.  Know who your locum is.  Know what sorts of things they are best with.   Make sure those are the patients they see.  If you have a good relationship with your patients to begin with, it’s unlikely that a locum will be able to “steal” them away.  If the acupuncturist you have covering for you really does have special knowledge or insight into a particular patient’s condition, you may also want to consider whether sending the patient to this other person might be in the best interests of the patient, even if it is not in your best financial interest.

Very often when someone covers for you, you have them there whatever days they can be available.  They may not have as many days as you would like.  It’s best for everyone if you have only one person at a time cover your office if at all possible. Your patients are already seeing someone new.  They may be uncomfortable with the new person.  It’s not fair to have multiple new people in your office, changing the treatments each time.  Even if you work very hard to have someone do the exact treatment you did, it will always come out a little differently.  Every acupuncturist has their own style.

The most important thing is that you find someone who can fit in with your office.  The locum may not do the same things you do, but their style complements yours in a way that is not too disruptive to the patient.  This can involve meeting with the potential locum, perhaps even being treated by them.  Of course, knowing you are leaving your office in the hands of someone else can be scary.  Consider having them in for one day before you’re going to be gone.  Get feedback from the patients who were seen by that person.

No one can be available all the time. Everyone needs down time. Patients need care.  At some point there’s a good chance someone will have to cover your practice.  Take the time to find the right person.  Keep your expectations realistic.  Then enjoy your vacation.

 

Struggle and Ease

As I work on my art business I am finding that I struggle with the acupuncture side of things more.   There seem to be fewer opportunities for me and those that are there seem like so much more work.  I believe in my art as a vehicle for expanding the reach of acupuncturists.  I believe that what I have to say has value but it is a struggle.

I have other artwork that just seems so much easier to work on and I have more reach.  However, there are more people doing that sort of work so although I have more reach, I also have more competition.  It also doesn’t seem quite as important.

So it is something I have to ask myself.  How important is the ease of work? Is it easy because I love it more? Maybe.  I don’t have all the answers.  As I reflect on this internal struggle and uncertainty, it feels rather universal.  How often to do we think we are led to something because it feels so easy?  Is that really the sign that we are led? Is it really easy or does it feel that way?  Are there always questions along a path.  How do we know what we need to focus on?  What I do know is that this isn’t an either or proposition.  It’s merely the question of what gets focused on today. There will be other things to focus on later.   There may be some of the same choices or there will be new ones.  It’s just a matter of what is happening in the universe.

Why Do I Feel like Acupuncture has to be Serious?

Heart CenteredI’m working with Mark Silver’s Heart of Business year long course this year.  Last week our coaching call was with Jason Stein, who works as a coach with Mark as well as working with Oregon College of Oriental Medicine’s alumni.   Jason started the call with a full minute of laughter.  As I giggled quietly in the background I kept thinking that I really needed to improve my heart qi because I was quite jealous of those could laugh loudly throughout the full minute.  When I tired of my quiet giggle they made me laugh more because of the sheer joy that came from the sound of laughter.

Something else came up for me in that call.  I work on artwork for acupuncturists and I started the class thinking I wanted to focus on that. After that call I realized that this blog and this work is harder for me than the writing I do on my cat blog.  A big part of the reason was because this isn’t as fun.  I feel like I have to be serious when I talk about acupuncture.  I don’t know why.  I feel like in writing something valuable for acupuncturists I have to have some thought provoking and useful post.  I can’t just post the latest Frank and Ernest cartoon that shows them looking at a picture of someone lying face down with needles in their back saying how much back stabbing when on in that school.

Part of that is the fear that such jokes offend people.  The other part is that it feels like it’s not appropriate as a way of offering information.   On the other hand, I am a huge believer that if you can’t laugh at something there’s a problem.  Yes I do laugh at acupuncture but not often among acupuncturists.  When I have patients who were really worried and nervous and it seems appropriate my approach would be to say if it hurt was to “Scream loudly so everyone will know.”  It was such an unexpected response to the fears that they were usually too busy laughing to feel the first insertion, at which point I’d chide them for not screaming loudly.  Most patients were surprised that I had done anything.

Fact it, acupuncture is an energetic medicine that current science can’t quantify in the way the people of the US likes things quantified.  So it’s this strange medicine where people who are already in pain have a bunch of needles poked into them (doesn’t that hurt more?) to get out of pain.  And no one really knows how it works. Acupuncturists do but they can’t put it into terms that Westerners get, usually.  That lack of understanding and that fear of being thought foolish is another reason there is so little humor around acupuncture.   Acupuncturists aren’t out making jokes about their profession.  They want to be taken seriously.

Oddly, the most serious place I worked, an animal hospital, where we were helping people make life and death decisions had more joking around than any place else I’ve ever worked. There was no humor too black or too ironic for the veterinary clinic.  In fact, we had a staff holiday party in a restaurant once.  We were asked not to do it again as everyone seated around us left and many complained about our inappropriate dinner conversation.    We even thought that was funny, if a bit embarrassing.

Why did that staff laugh at things that shouldn’t be laughed at?  Because what else do you do?  As Kurt Vonnegut famously said, if you don’t laugh at it, you’ll cry.  Maybe I need to start realizing that the best way to be taken seriously is to let my hair down long enough to laugh at what I do as an acupuncture practitioner.  How can I be “heart centered” if I don’t laugh? The challenge, of course, is how to lighten the tone of an acupuncture blog like this one.

I guess that’s something we’ll all find out, won’t we?

Delight

Delighted CatI tend to think of delight as joy.  How often do we allow ourselves to just do something we really love and take delight in that moment?  How much do we really delight ourselves?

I tend to get caught up in work and in worrying that it is easy to forget to find something that is just delightful and fun.  It exists and it is there.   Remember that the more delight you have in your life, the more that will carry over into your business.  Customers will see that and take their own delight in the small things you do.

Valuing Your Work

I’ve been working on pricing some items.  I know I undervalue what I do.  It seems like that’s a common theme for those in the helping professions.

Consider that if you are self-employed, you need to be making a certain amount to survive with your overhead.  Certainly insurance companies have been slow to keep up with cost of living but that doesn’t mean that acupuncture rates don’t need to go up.  It doesn’t mean you can’t ask for what you are worth.  Ultimately each practitioner can figure out what they can agree on as far as the amount they need to make per patient.  Someone seeing several patients per hour can leverage their time such they can charge a lower rate per patient than the practitioner who sees only one person per hour.

The fact that the second practitioner sees fewer patients may be a selling point as to why they charge higher rates.

If you, as a practitioner, honestly feel you are worth the money people will come in and pay you no matter what you ask.  It helps to be clear about exactly how much you think you deserve. If you don’t think you can charge enough to live on, it might help to consider why you don’t value your time.  Sometimes that discomfort is about issues around personal value that may not even be realized.

Choices: Is it Too Little or Too Much

Making choices in your acupuncture practiceI’m thinking about a number of things in my life.  In growing my business I had some resistance to doing some stuff suggested–adding products and the comment was that it sounds like you’re afraid this could get to big.  And yes, that is true. I have other things I want to spend time on too.

On the other hand, I realized as I was slow to find space in my new larger home that I have a lot of space and that creates its own indecision.  No longer to have to stuff what I can where I can in the closest to the most useful place, but I can plan where I want things to be organized. I can plan how I want to use the space.  It’s an unusual feeling.  This means that I have so many decisions to make about those small things, like extra light bulbs and batteries (which my husband purchases at Costco regularly) that my house still is not quite home.  But it’s getting there.

I don’t have to have things done perfectly.  There are places that will need to be re-arranged.  There are things that I might swap out at a later time when I re-organize and know where I’ll be using things most.  This is far easier to work with than the fear of something being too much.

Again there are decisions about where do I want to focus my energy.  What is it exactly that I want to do.  In an acupuncture practice it seems like we take on all of it without choice because there isn’t enough money to not do it all.  Some people find others who will work as contractors for percentages, like insurance billers.  Others hire employees.  It’s important to set up your business so that you are doing that which you love most of the time.  There will always be tasks that need to be done by you that aren’t as fun, aren’t as enjoyable.  However, really get in touch with those tasks that you dislike the most and get someone to help you with those.

Warming Foods: The Good and The Ugly

Winter Sugar CravingsYang deficient patients need to eat warming foods.  We think of foods like chicken or ginger or perhaps garlic to help warm their spleen yang.  These foods help digestion.  It will warm the body and increase the energy.

I mostly eat okay.  This winter, after having a little too much extra food over the holidays I was starting back on a decent diet and limiting my intake of simple carbohydrates when we were hit by a winter storm.  At first, as it snowed outside I enjoyed watching.  I had some lunch.  I decided to treat myself to a kombucha.  As the snow continued for the next two days I found myself with the increasing urge to bake.

I grew up in a home where my mother offered baked goods on a daily basis.  They were always homemade and she used the best ingredients possible.  By best, I do not mean the most healthful, but the best ingredients that would make the best food.  At some point in my childhood she discovered that Crisco was easier than lard.  By the time I was a teenager a chocolate cake might come out of a box. I remember sitting in the kitchen watching her or at times helping with things that needed extra hands.

The snow brought that back.  After fighting the urge for most of a morning and into the late afternoon I baked some simple cookies.  And I ate.  And ate. I found that I couldn’t get enough of them.  I’m yang deficient. I was cold.  After feeling badly and wondering what was off on my hormones and how could I correct this, it occurred to me to wonder, as I shivered under covers when the power out later that I was surprised at my chill given the sugar I had eaten earlier. It then occurred to me to wonder, was the sugar craving my body’s way of trying to warm itself when there was cold outside?

This didn’t make the sugar binge okay with me, but it gave me an aha moment.  Perhaps our cultural love affair with all things sugar is really our body’s attempt to balance an imbalance. The cold, quick foods so often eaten and the heavy carbohydrates that further inhibit the spleen means that most people in my office were, to a great or lesser extent, spleen qi deficient and often spleen yang deficient.  While there are far better foods that would warm my body, sugar is a food my body has found earlier than it has found many of the other warming foods. Perhaps therein lies the craving.  Maybe my body is taking its limited knowledge of balancing and attempting to make a balance, despite the fact that sugar will cause so many other problems.

Certainly I know to avoid sugar.  Certainly I mostly do.  But sometimes something comes up with a strong craving and I give in.  This gives me another question to ask myself before giving in.  I can consider why now?  Maybe it’s the weather.  Fats are often helpful to manage sugar cravings.  Fats are also very warming.  I wonder if that’s one of the reasons they work to limit sugar cravings.  Although sometimes, fats just aren’t as good as sugar!  Oddly, my choice was peanut butter cookies, so I guess I had some of both!

When your Goals Conflict

When Goals ConflictI’ve often struggled with success in many areas of my life.  One idea that often comes up as I try and work with that issue is that are the conflicting commitments.  How many patients come in and want to lose weight but also want to eat the sugary carbohydrate rich diet that made them fat in the first place?  The foods taste good.  We’re committed to enjoying our food.  We may be more committed to that than to losing weight.  Recognizing the commitment inherent in overeating (it could be anything from enjoying food to emotional self soothing) and then working with that to see which is more important–the commitment to be at a healthy weight or the commitment that allows the overeating–can be the key to getting to where you want to be.

I was thinking about this again while reading the biography of Steve Jobs by Walter Isaacson.  When staring Apple, Jobs wanted to do a number of things.  He wanted to change the way people thought about computers.  He wanted to put computers on the desk of every person.   He wanted to make a computer that anyone could afford to have.  There were some other goals, but it was interesting to me that he wanted to be the computer of the masses.

I love Mac products.  I’m of an age to have been a geeky techy person when the Mac was new.  I remember being there when a friend got the first Mac and everyone gathered as he removed the cover around to look at the signatures embedded there.   The Mac is a good machine.  It is not a cheap machine.  I can get a PC with a bigger hard drive, more memory and an equally fast hardware loaded with software for about 60% of what I would pay for a new Mac.   Office software is typically $10 to $30 less on a PC than on a Mac.  Back when you purchased PC games for use on your computer, Mac games were often $20 higher and took an extra 6 months to come out.

The Mac is a good machine.  Jobs did that.  He made a great machine.  I’ve had Macs still run after 10 years of hard use.  One of the ancient Macs was at an office where I worked.

Macs, however, are not affordable for everyone.  This was one commitment that Jobs couldn’t keep.   His main commitment was in building new and innovative machines that worked and worked well.   The commitment to being a machine for every man fell by the wayside.

The question becomes, does this make him less of a success?  I doubt anyone would say it did.

As we step back from our conflicting commitments, perhaps it’s time to take a look at those we kept to ourselves and how we can make ourselves proud rather than focusing on where we failed.  I doubt Jobs ever looked twice at the fact that at one point in his life he wanted to make computers for “the masses” and instead turned out a high-end product that not everyone could afford.  He went with what was a priority to him and didn’t question when something was not aligned with what he really wanted.